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The episode explores the relationship between Jews and the cross-dressing traditions, exemplified by Purim celebrations, and how these practices have influenced Jewish identity and broader cultural developments. Engaging with historical and contemporary voices, it discusses how drag has served as a means of storytelling, identity exploration, and cultural resistance within Jewish communities.

Amichai Lau-Lavie, an openly gay Jewish leader, redefines Jewish spirituality by blending traditional practices with contemporary inclusivity through his creation, Lab/Shul. The podcast also explores his personal journey of reconciling his Orthodox background with his identity, and his role in Amos Gitai's documentary, Sabbath Queen.

Amichai Lau-Lavie, a gay man from an Orthodox rabbinical family, discusses creating Lab/Shul, a "God-optional" experimental Jewish community in New York. Lau-Lavie shares his journey of balancing his identity with religious traditions and explains the importance of reevaluating Jewish rituals like Sabbath for contemporary spiritual needs.

Amichai Lau-Lavie, a descendant of rabbis, challenges traditional Judaism by integrating his identity as an out gay man and Rabbinic figure through his innovative community, Lab/Shul. In a conversation with host Ralph Benmergui, he discusses the impact of spirituality on his life, the significance of Shabbat rituals, and the transformative potential of non-traditional approaches to Judaism.

The episode explores the complexities of modern relationships, highlighting the unrealistic expectations placed on partners and the increasing popularity of couples therapy, particularly how men are navigating societal shifts around masculinity. Daniel Oppenheimer discusses his personal journey in couples therapy and the nuances of accepting personal responsibility within a marriage, framed by his Jewish identity and ideas from therapist Terry Real.

Jennifer Sey discusses her journey from a national gymnastics champion to a CEO advocating for women's rights in sports, emphasizing the challenges she faced due to her controversial views on COVID-19 policies and trans athletes in women's sports. Her conversation sheds light on corporate America's shift towards 'woke capitalism' and the personal and professional fallout she experienced for standing by her beliefs.

The episode analyzes how American liberals have shifted from advocating common sense to embracing radical ideas, particularly in the context of gender ideology and other contemporary debates. The discussion critiques how the Democratic Party has reacted to issues like trans rights and antisemitism within its ranks, arguing that this has allowed conservatives to position themselves as the champions of common sense.

Middle East expert Ksenia Svetlova discusses the status of women's rights across the region, noting its importance as a measure of broader social freedom and stability. She highlights Tunisia as most progressive in terms of women's rights and criticizes countries like Iran for their regressive practices, while also considering future Russian influence in Syria.

Jewish activist Erica Pelman discusses her work with SHIFRA, an organization dedicated to supporting Jewish women facing unplanned pregnancies, and proposes a rethinking of the abortion debate beyond the "pro-choice" and "pro-life" dichotomy. She argues for a supportive approach that emphasizes listening to women's unique circumstances and providing comprehensive resources to enable informed choices.

Women's rights in Israel and the United States are being systematically undermined by the rise of far-right religious political forces, with strategic attacks on gender equality eroding broader democratic principles. Notably, gender issues serve as both a battleground and warning sign for authoritarian agendas, underscoring the urgent need for activism and awareness.

The Commentary Magazine Podcast discusses Trump's controversial cabinet picks, Donald Trump's policy on transgender rights and its political implications. The show explores the challenges the Democratic Party faces in moderate restructuring post-election and the complex dynamics of U.S. support for Ukraine in its war against Russia.

Felice Gaer's extensive career in human rights advocacy is celebrated, emphasizing her influence within organizations like the American Jewish Committee’s Jacob Blaustein Institute. Her contributions to women's and human rights, including significant work at the Beijing World Conference on Women, mark her as a transformative figure in international human rights discourse.

Justine Siegal and Keith Stein are launching the Women's Pro Baseball League set to begin in 2026, with the aim of providing a professional platform for women in a sport that hasn't seen a professional league since the 1950s. Meanwhile, the podcast delves into the recent disturbances in Amsterdam involving Maccabi Tel Aviv supporters, raising questions about anti-Semitism and soccer hooliganism intersecting in Europe.

Experts discuss the complex topic of male rabbinic figures teaching female students, examining religious, social, and ethical considerations. They address the dynamics of gendered education, potential challenges, necessary boundaries, and the impact on teachers and students.

Az Nashir: We Will Sing Again is a newly compiled women's prayer book, edited by Shira Lankin Sheps, Anne Gordon, and Rachel Sharansky Danziger. The anthology, inspired by the distress following the October 7, 2023 attack, serves as a spiritual companion for women, blending historical traditions with modern expressions of prayer and art.

The episode explores how the Reform Movement's commitment to inclusivity has shaped modern Judaism, examining the milestones that have made Reform Judaism a leader in accepting diverse identities. Through engaging discussions with Rabbi Karen Perolman, the conversation highlights the potential tensions and responsibilities that come with being inclusive while maintaining traditional Jewish values.

Emmi Polansky shares her intensely personal journey of finding agency and optimism as a young single mother after her marriage abruptly ended, illustrating a profound example of teshuva involving return to self-worth and divine connection. Her story resonates with themes of resilience, personal growth, and a return to spirituality and God amid adversity.

Neshama Carlebach discusses her journey from defying expectations in Orthodox Judaism to becoming a rabbi, inspired by recent global events and personal convictions. She reflects on her father's legacy, the challenges of raising Jewish children amidst rising antisemitism, and her dedication to fostering healing through music and spirituality.

Donald Trump sparked controversy during an address to black journalists by making remarks about Kamala Harris's ethnicity. Some speculate whether his comments were a strategic move to prompt a discussion on identity politics favored by the elite that could benefit his campaign and negatively impact Harris.

The episode discusses the recent passing of sexual education pioneer Dr. Ruth Westheimer and explores her enduring influence on public sex education within Jewish and broader communities. The hosts are joined by Dr. Laurie Betito to reflect on changes in sex education, the role of Jewish culture in openness about sex, and misconceptions related to older women and sexuality.

Hosted by Avi Finegold and Phoebe Maltz Bovy, this episode of Bonjour Chai features an interview with Dr. Sara Glass about her memoir 'Kissing Girls on Shabbat,' exploring her journey from a Hasidic upbringing to embracing her identity as a queer woman. The episode also delves into discussions around antisemitism, societal trends, and the intersection of Jewish life and modernity.

Sara Glass, author of "Kissing Girls on Shabbat," discusses her journey from a strict Hasidic upbringing to embracing her identity as a queer modern Orthodox Jewish therapist. The episode also explores discussions around the portrayal of certain male actors in media, touching on themes of identity and societal trends.

Dr. Cochav Elkayam-Levy addresses the October 7th use of rape and sexual violence as weapons by Hamas against Israeli women and children. Her new Civil Commission aims to document these crimes amidst international indifference, highlighting the need for a robust response to such atrocities.

The episode discusses the recent Israeli military incursions in Rafah, appraising the risks and strategic intentions behind the operations, and reviews the documentary film "Screams Before Silence," which deals with gender violence perpetrated during the October 7 attacks. Additionally, they touch on Tel Aviv's millionaire demographics and celebrate Israeli resilience through humor and music.

A Haredi mother, Dina, shares her experiences raising two sons who serve in the IDF, against the backdrop of a community typically not engaged in military service. Amid personal challenges and the broader context of the Israeli national crisis post-October 7th, Dina offers profound insights into parental resilience and communal unity.

Henrietta Szold (1860-1945) is celebrated for founding Hadassah, the Women's Zionist Organization of America, which achieved remarkable success among Zionist groups. Award-winning author Francine Klagsbrun penned a new biography titled "Henrietta Szold: Hadassah and the Zionist Dream," delving into the life of this extraordinary woman whose influence endures.

Adina Sash, also known as @FlatbushGirl, joins the hosts to discuss the plight of agunot, particularly highlighting the case of Malky Berkowitz, an Orthodox woman denied a religious divorce by her husband. The conversation delves into the sexual politics within the Orthodox community and Sash's activism, including her controversial methods to bring attention to the issue.

The episode explores the challenges faced by Orthodox women trapped in marriages due to the refusal of their husbands to grant a get, highlighting the case of Malky Berkowitz and the activism of Adina Sash, aka FlatbushGirl. The discussion delves into the societal roles and limitations within ultra-Orthodox communities, particularly focusing on gender dynamics, sexual autonomy, and the controversial idea of a mikvah strike as a form of protest.

Israeli filmmaker Shifra Soloveichik, inspired by the resilience of women during challenging times, created the initiative Women of Valor: Women of War to highlight the untold stories of courageous Israeli women. The project aims to showcase the strength and empowerment of women facing adversity, such as Iris Haim, who showed remarkable forgiveness and unity despite personal tragedy, and Sarah Lopez, who found joy and purpose amid darkness. By sharing these narratives through documentaries and social media, Women of Valor provides a platform for Jewish women to express their experiences and redefine strength in the face of hardship.

The UN released a report confirming widespread sexual violence perpetrated by Hamas against Israeli women on October 7, which marks a significant acknowledgment by an international body. Ruth Halperin-Kaddari, an Israeli legal expert, discusses the report's implications, emphasizing its potential impact on international perception and legal proceedings against Hamas.

The episode discusses the UN's report confirming sexual violence against Israeli women by Hamas on October 7, highlighting the importance of acknowledging these crimes despite previous denials. Israeli legal expert Ruth Halperin-Kaddari, who facilitated the report's realization, explains its significance in seeking justice and accountability for the affected women.

Diane Flacks delves into the complexities of Jewish guilt and personal accountability through humor in her solo show "Guilt (A Love Story)," which explores her divorce and its impact on her family. The discussion with host Ralph Benmurgui highlights generational trauma, the intersection of Jewish morality and guilt, and the cathartic role of humor in processing life's weightiest challenges.

Diane Flacks explores the interplay of Jewish guilt, divorce, and motherhood in her one-woman show 'Guilt (A Love Story),' turning her personal experiences into humor and self-reflection. Through her narrative, Flacks invites the audience to grapple with themes of intergenerational trauma and the complexities of familial responsibility, providing a profound yet comedic take on universal struggles.

Diane Flacks explores the complexities of Jewish guilt and divorce in her one-woman play, "Guilt (A Love Story)," sharing her personal journey through humor and self-reflection. The episode delves into how cultural narratives, parenting, and personal identity interplay with the universal experience of guilt and resilience.

In Shiur 457, the discussion focuses on avoiding the main reason for divorce by maintaining connection with one's spouse throughout the course of a marriage. The conversation delves into the halachic obligations between spouses, the evolving nature of relationships in different stages of marriage, reasons for disconnection, and the impact of social media on marriages. The event features guest hosts Ari Wasserman, Rabbi Yaakov Neuburger, Mrs. Chani Juravel, Rabbi Shmuel Maybruch, and Mrs. Sara Yoheved Rigler, offering insights and advice on staying connected and rekindling the relationship if disconnected. The session concludes with wrap-up, takeaways, and reflections on personal experiences.

The article discusses the weaponization of sexual violence by Hamas during an attack on Israel on October 7th. Despite evidence and survivor testimonies, there is widespread denial of these crimes. Julie Fishman Rayman from AJC highlights efforts in Congress to support Israeli victims of Hamas sexual violence. A bipartisan resolution condemning rape and sexual violence as a weapon of war by Hamas was passed in the US House of Representatives. The report by the Association of Rape Crisis Centers details atrocities committed during the attack, emphasizing uncomfortable truths to advocate for survivors. Sexual violence as a weapon of war is a global issue, impacting not only women but men and children as well. Efforts are ongoing to push the resolution through the Senate with advocacy from families of victims and survivors.

The discussion centers on an essay by Emily Gould that narrates her mental breakdown and the contemplation of divorce, considered a poignant cultural commentary on modern elite and pop culture. The podcast evaluates the dynamics of Gould's marriage and her husband's response, revealing themes of narcissism and vulnerability within personal relationships.

Lili Ben Ami shares her experience turning a personal tragedy into a mission to combat domestic violence through the Michal Sela Forum, an organization she founded following the murder of her sister. Employing innovative technologies and community collaboration, the forum seeks to protect women at risk and prevent future tragedies by educating society about the often invisible signs of dangerous relationships.

The episode explores the challenges Jewish girls and women face in engaging with sports, featuring an interview with Chelsey Goldberg who successfully lobbied for the inclusion of women's hockey in the Maccabiah Games. It also delves into the recent NHL All-Star game controversy involving a singer's political apparel.

Hannah Rachel Vermermacher, known as the Maiden of Ludmir, defied traditional gender roles by becoming a Hasidic leader in the 19th century, attracting followers with her mysticism. Her story, potentially inspiring modern interpretations of the dybbuk myth, weaves independence, religious devotion, and the impact of a spiritual awakening on her life's trajectory.