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Jewish Word | Chaver: Friend or Lover?

JL;DR SUMMARY Hebrew's use of "chaver," which ambiguously refers to both platonic friends and romantic partners, highlights cultural nuances in how Israelis define relationships. A way out west there was a fella, fella I want to tell you about, fella by the name of Jeff Lebowski. At least, that was the handle his lovin' parents gave him, but he never had much use for it himself. This Lebowski, he called himself the Dude. Now, Dude, that's a name no one would self-apply where I come from. But then, there was a lot about the Dude that didn't make a whole lot of sense to me. And a lot about where he lived, likewise. But then again, maybe that's why I found the place s'durned innarestin'.

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FriendshipIsraeli CultureRelationshipsHebrew LanguageModern RelationshipsChaverRomantic PartnersLanguage AmbiguityAcademy Of The Hebrew LanguageBen Zug

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Evanston, Illinois, United States
"Chasnoff grew up in Evanston, IL, and joined the IDF after graduating from college where he noticed that friendship in Israel, like friendship in Hebrew, its not just someone you know, he says."
Jerusalem, Israel
"says Barak Dan, head of the Academic Secretariat of the Academy of the Hebrew Language in Jerusalem."
Florida, United States
"according to Galia Hatav, a specialist in biblical Hebrew at the University of Florida, adding that the Hebrew word for society (chevra) shares the same root."
Israel
"Seven years later, during a trip to Israel, I listened as two Israeli women shared their frustration with the word chaver and how it fails to capture the complexity of defining a relationship."

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