JL;DR SUMMARY Rabbi Yisrael Motzen explores the bias within Jewish communities against individuals who don't fit the traditional family mold, particularly singles and childless people, highlighting historical figures such as Rabbi Meir Shapiro and Sarah Schenirer who succeeded despite similar circumstances. A way out west there was a fella, fella I want to tell you about, fella by the name of Jeff Lebowski. At least, that was the handle his lovin' parents gave him, but he never had much use for it himself. This Lebowski, he called himself the Dude. Now, Dude, that's a name no one would self-apply where I come from. But then, there was a lot about the Dude that didn't make a whole lot of sense to me. And a lot about where he lived, likewise. But then again, maybe that's why I found the place s'durned innarestin'.