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With co-parenting on the rise in Israel, an advocate aims to export the model to American Jews

JL;DR SUMMARY Co-parenting, a trend gaining traction in Israel, involves two individuals raising children together platonically without being romantic partners. A way out west there was a fella, fella I want to tell you about, fella by the name of Jeff Lebowski. At least, that was the handle his lovin' parents gave him, but he never had much use for it himself. This Lebowski, he called himself the Dude. Now, Dude, that's a name no one would self-apply where I come from. But then, there was a lot about the Dude that didn't make a whole lot of sense to me. And a lot about where he lived, likewise. But then again, maybe that's why I found the place s'durned innarestin'.

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Jewish CultureLgbtqFertilitySingle ParentingCo ParentingFamily StructureMichal BiranHachasidaNesting

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Tel Aviv, Tel Aviv District, Israel
"TEL AVIV In playgrounds around this city, its no longer unusual to meet a child who splits time between two homes, not because their parents divorced, but because they were never a couple in the first place."
Jerusalem, Israel
"Liling keeps an apartment in Tel Aviv to make the logistics easier on her, even as he continues to live in Jerusalem."
New York, United States
"I dont understand how it hasnt happened in New York, which has so many Jewish mothers and so many gays, she quipped."
California, United States
"She is rolling out the service abroad under the name Nesting, a term she prefers to Hachasidas literal translation of stork, beginning in California and New York."
Florida, United States
"And then I looked at a map and realized just how huge Florida is, she said, laughing."
Brooklyn, New York, United States
"A lawyer and venture capitalist, Liling entered co-parenting as he approached his late 40s after struggling to find a woman he could build a life with. "I really felt I didnt want to miss out on being a father," he said. "As a culture, were obsessed with having children," he said, calling Israel the mecca of co-parenting. Living in Jerusalem and religiously observant, Liling said the friction was not with the concept, but with some of the women he met through the process, describing what he saw as a knee-jerk reaction from secular matches wh"

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