JL;DR SUMMARY In a Shiur (Jewish learning session) on dealing with in-laws, the discussion covers handling conflicts between honoring in-laws and one's own parents, the importance of listening to input from in-laws, halachic guidelines for addressing in-laws, how a mother-in-law can address perceived deficiencies in her daughter-in-law, potential father-in-law issues, and establishing healthy boundaries. A way out west there was a fella, fella I want to tell you about, fella by the name of Jeff Lebowski. At least, that was the handle his lovin' parents gave him, but he never had much use for it himself. This Lebowski, he called himself the Dude. Now, Dude, that's a name no one would self-apply where I come from. But then, there was a lot about the Dude that didn't make a whole lot of sense to me. And a lot about where he lived, likewise. But then again, maybe that's why I found the place s'durned innarestin'.